@anylene Start with your diet... That's like 80% of weight loss anyway. Clean that up, eat within your caloric needs for weight loss (deficic) first and establish those healthy eating habits as best you can.
Maybe you don't like the gym and that's ok... Have you considered other activities? My...
@romans5to8 perhaps you need to set goals? that's what makes lifting so great - hitting those PRs.
or maybe you need a change in exercise; try muay thai or martial arts....that will really give you a rush!