/@binnguyen84 wrote a great post on changing your mindset on PRs and progress.
This right here is a great snippet, but it is definitely worth reading the whole thing. As older lifters, many of us will find it harder to smash down those walls, and it is definitely worthwhile to consider how we evaluate progress and personal records.
Lifting offers diminishing returns, that's just the sad fact of it. Progress will always become progressively slower the better you get. Weekly increases in SBD 1RM become monthly increases, become yearly increases, become multi-year increases. A lifter will rapidly reach a point where the positive feedback of getting a new PR or meeting a goal becomes less and less frequent. This kills motivation. There is boatloads of research on the importance of regular positive feedback, small victories, and the like in the preservation of motivation and productivity. If you cut off the stream of achievement and results you slowly erode your motivation and damage your mindset. Beyond that even the most disciplined lifter who cares fuck all about motivation and will go to the gym and bust ass like some kind of forklift robot will still see reduced progress and results from continuously pounding their head against a wall when plateaued in an effort to reach a new level on the same lifts. Trying again and again with the same approach when it has not worked before is not determination, it's insanity.
Broadening Your Horizons:
The solution to this fixation and inevitable stagnation is change, and one way to create that change is to expand the scope of what is a PR and what goals you set.
This right here is a great snippet, but it is definitely worth reading the whole thing. As older lifters, many of us will find it harder to smash down those walls, and it is definitely worthwhile to consider how we evaluate progress and personal records.