@tverinus I understand your critique and I don’t completely disagree. The idea was that if you’re at a loss as to why you’re unable to lose weight, counting calories accurately is the only way that is 100% sure to work. If this was a post on ways to count calories without making it feel like a chore, then I could have provided different ways to do it, but this is a post on how to be absolutely sure you will lose weight. The advice is aimed at people who actually have not tried to be accurately track everything.
I have read numerous posts on r/loseit from people who were not counting properly and it was throwing off their progress, either “tasting” while they cooked, not knowing that the sauce they were tasting added 50 calories. That’s not much but if you do it on the daily, and in general you’re not very diligent with tracking, that could cancel a deficit, especially since we have so little margin, being short. I remember one guy in particular who was eating 500-something calories worth of “calorie-free” Tic Tacs on daily basis. The thing is the calorie-count on the box was 0, but that was for one mint, which is actually 2 calories, but when it’s less than 5, companies are allowed to write 0.
I also feel like people can use their own judgment when it comes to those things and that’s why I said it’s particularly important to be accurate when it comes to calorie-dense foods. So let’s say for lettuce, you add a cup of lettuce you log it, you add a tablespoon of tabasco, you log it. Do you have to weigh those items? Probably not because they’re not calorie-dense. Personally I still would weigh the lettuce just out of convenience and probably would just eye it for the tabasco. Should you just not log them altogether because of that? Probably not either. Some people will just not log fruits and vegetables because they’re “healthy”, or they won’t log beverages because “they’re not food”.
I’ll take your point and say: we could use a post on how to track calories, be accurate and keep your sanity. There are so many ways to make a change that’s sustainable and doesn’t feel like a chore, I just didn’t feel like getting into that for this post.
For your next point regarding no loss after 3 weeks, I’d bring you back to my point #1, which is that you should track your weight accurately and look for the overall trend. Ideally, you should weigh yourself everyday, so that you can account for daily fluctuations. If someone has been weighing themselves daily, for 3 weeks, and they haven’t lost not even 0.5 of a pound in 3 weeks, most likely they haven’t been on a deficit.
Lastly regarding your comment about BMR, most people’s BMR will be lower than 1200 calories, which I warned it wasn’t recommended to go under, as it could result in nutrient deficiencies. It’s also just not good or necessary for 99.9% of people. Also, just to reiterate, when in doubt, consult with a professional.