@hendricks62 I'm your height and weight. I'm not currently training at this level - But when lifting and climbing were a big focus, I was eating 2400 on rest days and around 3k plus on active days. I didn't go for hypertrophy and so wasn't doing body building. But biking, lifting, and climbing - I was able to make power gains through proper fueling (and rest and hydration). And subsequently I saw some of my proportions change.
I would also look at your program and seeing if there's any changes to be made there. One of the things I've learned both with lifting and climbing is "minimum effective dose" training. Instead of grinding on volume or 5x5 (i'm making assumptions, but that's a common thing I've seen) 6 days a week, really going for an autoregulated (RPE) program that doesn't push you to breaking point and allows for adequate rest can help both with appearance changes and power gains.
If you still feel stuck, you might also want to look at a trainer to help modify your routine to help you meet your goals.
All of that being said. "Looking like you work out" is a very subjective thing. I find that many folks who work out feel like they don't look like they do, but their movements, how clothes fit them, what's soft and what's not say otherwise. We are our harshest critics.