36/F here- I just started working with a trainer to get stronger and healthier. I'm starting a lifting program and we are also addressing my nutrition/relationship with food. I want to lose weight in the process of getting healthy, but I don't want to make my goal "lose 20lbs" or "get to x weight." I think I will be more successful if I am working toward something centered around strength or fitness/health rather than just a goal of making myself smaller. Does anyone have some ideas of things I could realistically work toward in the 3-6 month range?