nochainsonme
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@jrsinct You must remember that how heavy the weight your lifting is relative to your bodyweight and biological sex. For example, a 70kg man benching 40kg is super beginner standard. On the other hand, a 70kg woman benching 40kg is almost intermediate level, quite impressive I'd say because it requires alot of training and dedication unlike the 70kg man who is just using default untrained strength he did not work for. Don't compare yourself to the men, you're not even playing the same game. The effort you exert in getting stronger, form technique, and the rate of your progression is much more important than heavy weights.
I also used to be super scrawny with spaghetti limbs. The gym I started lifting at mostly had big buff dudes in the weight area. I weighed 46kg and would just bench like 5-10kg, super baby weight. Eventually made it to 20kg after a few months and this one massive dude with a really nice Nigerian accent was like, damn you are very strong now! Because this dude understands the lift, he knew that 20kg is heavy relative to my body weight. So yeah, don't worry. The people who respect the art will understand.
I also used to be super scrawny with spaghetti limbs. The gym I started lifting at mostly had big buff dudes in the weight area. I weighed 46kg and would just bench like 5-10kg, super baby weight. Eventually made it to 20kg after a few months and this one massive dude with a really nice Nigerian accent was like, damn you are very strong now! Because this dude understands the lift, he knew that 20kg is heavy relative to my body weight. So yeah, don't worry. The people who respect the art will understand.