@seraph159 Telling someone to get a handle of their weight isn’t fatphobic, it’s reality. Waist size is an indicator of health and health risks especially in women. Having a bigger waist is a sign of heart disease, lower fertility, diabetes, and other issues. And yes, women’s weight does fluctuate, but it shouldn’t be any more than 10lbs, not going from 120 to 160 or more in a year. Where do you get off thinking you know more than doctors? TikTok? You’re going to get a lot of young girls messed up with this insane indoctrination.
I am a very petite Latina/ Irish mixed with a bit of Asian and ancestry and at 5’1.5, 130-140, I looked huge, felt miserable and had a higher BF% compared to other women. I was told my BMI was too low for many weight loss programs. I used to wonder why I was fat still compared to other women my height and weight. Even now at 120-110, I have to get down even further to 95-105 for me to have a lower BF. I wore a size xs, 2-4, 26-27 at 130-140 and still had fat. My family has a history of cancers, diabetes and heart issues.
Don’t do what makes you happy, do what makes you healthy. Smoking crack will make you happy too, but damn sure wont make you healthy