Thanks folks... I have an appointment with her Tuesday so I'll ask again.
The dietitian did recommend the calorie count. Surprisingly my BMR is in the 1,350s (I've been tested 3x in the past 4 years).
I've always had problems with my weight and can fluctuate as much as 5 lbs during the day. I feel like I look at food and gain weight. I had worked with a nutritionist before (4 years ago or so under the same workout conditions) and she also recommended 1,250. Neither of the nutritionists allow for the 'extra' calories created by workouts.
I really appreciate the hive mind on this one!