@huckleberrymom No no no no no no no ahahah
I've got wide as FUCK hips, big arms, big thighs and massive tiddeis, set with tiny hands and feet, and I look "stocky" (or, societally, fat), at any healthy weight. When I had a bmi of 16, my hips measured 36 inches round.
Like they're the reason I'll never look chic. They're the reason I'll always look wide. They're the reason I will always look fat under baggy clothes. They, and the wider waist they've given me as a result cause my torso is short, literally caused my anorexia as a teen!
I can reduce the breasts via an extortionately expensive surgery, but my hips are stuck this size.
You can always make a part of you look bigger, it's a lot harder to make a part of oyu look smaller. To my girlies with small boobs, trust me it's easier to stuff your bra for to fit in that dress than it is to lug around G cups in the summer, wanting to cry because your friends can free-boob it and you have sores under your breasts. WIth your choice being sores from the sweat of bras, or sores from chafing of the skin. Knowing your only way out is your entire life savings on a surgery that for some messed up reason is considered "purely cosmetic" in most cases, so the NHS/RAMQ/Insurance will not cover it. TRUST ME.