@123lx I thought about asking some other of the girls to go in together and buy some, but I still feel like sort of an ‘outsider’. It kinda feels weird bringing my own equipment in.
@123lx Either the monthly and yearly maintenance fees, there’s really no reason for them to have just 1 bar and to have to buy your own for a membership that you’re paying for.. I would’ve left that particular gym
@truthtellah My box has about 12 “women’s” barbells and 15 20kg ones. For some exercises I (a man) prefer the 15kg bar because I can focus on hook grip better and not worry about losing the bar. Deadlift is all 20kg, but snatch I prefer the 15. However I only use the 15 if nobody else needs it.
@janehenry C'mon, there are limits. I'm 6'2" with XL hands but asking me to hook grip an axle bar would be unreasonable. As a small-handed woman, OP's hand-to-bar ratio is probably not different from that.
@truthtellah If the owner knows you have to use man's barbell and doesn't address it - change gyms as suggested by others. Barbell makes a huge difference, especially for drills and for having stable lifts in general.
@truthtellah Yes, we have enough that if the entire class was women (as is often the case) we would all get a barbell (and there are always the grown-ups barbell collection at the back if we really needed a spare.)
@truthtellah I used to go to a gym that the more popular classes ran out of the 15k barbells. I ended up buying my own, putting a lock on it, and storing it at the gym. I’m not saying this is the right answer but it’s a solution. Your gym needs to do better!