@dollfaceme23 You don't need to be able to do shit until who gives a fuck.
I've never been obese but I've always been a heavy guy. The road of 0 to 1 pullups was the hardest and longest path I've ever been on. Its mentally tasking because you don't know what to expect and ready yourself to and the first pullups are not too often talked about. People just tell you do negative, do band assisted. And they would be right. But it takes;
hundreds of negatives, hundreds of half attempts, AND PATIENCE.
You are not entitled to your first pullup.
it is very hard.
It is a lot of work.
sure, for some it isn't.
You taking it in a long time doesn't mean you are a bum. It means you are one of us that started with a chubby tummy and thin arms and never had too much pulling power to begin with.
I know you at least don't want to be someone that can't do a single pull-up. and you want it NOW I know.
But you taking the time to do negatives and spending sweat and work every day is and not being able to do a single pullup IS. NOT. SHAMEFUL. You don't need to be ashamed. Its not something you run away from and distance yourself. Its just a part of the way. But please for gods sake be realistic. Try to see things clearly. Don't hide behind other exercises and slack off on pullups convincing yourself its just that pullups are weird for you.
You don't need to be able to do pullups by the end of the summer but you need to be able to still get through your workout. Losing motivation and you blaming yourself because of an unrealistic training and feeling entitled to FITNESS ACHIEVEMENTS in your mind (the first pullup is an achievement for many).
and now how I did it. trained 3 times pullups. 3x8 negatives, even if you are too tired after doing 3, EVEN IF ITS JUST FALLING AT THE LAST REPS. 3X8.
After some weeks, you will adjust to this. You might even take it back to 3x5 for a week and then work your way up to 3x6 3x7 and 3x8 with solid negatives.
and do horizontal rows or any row progression WITH GOOD SCAPULAR FORM. Now this is where you drop down the ego, increase the angle, and do PROPER REPS. GOOD REPS.
I was a huge fatass, first pullup took longer than 2 months. Almost one year later pulling with 55 lbs and increasing pretty fast. Even when I was at the gym Deadlifting 265 I couldn't do pullups. Got stuck in the home forever, did negatives and then one day it just happened. This might be too much tough love but I spent too much time blaming and hating myself because I couldn't do pullups.