@rysterf I know I only commented about the O P being a obese because she said she doesnāt look obese. I honestly wish she posted pictures because I canāt imagine someone being 4ā 9 and 168 pounds and not looking chubby. 168 pounds is a lot for somebody who is a little taller so I canāt even imagine being that height and weighing that much and not looking like you weigh a decent amount. I think some people her height commenting that theyāre 120 or 125 thatās a 40lb+ difference and 40 pounds is a lost of weight. It honestly wouldnāt matter how muscular she is and how much exercise she puts in. I know bodybuilders who are less than 10% body fat cool are considered obese on their BMI and are super ripped. If the OP was super ripped because she lifts weights, I doubt she would even be frustrated by her cousin.
I know what the O P is trying to say, but she mentioned she feels like crying and that kind of struck a nerve because in the end of the day if youāre overweight try to lose weight thatās really all it is. Itās not rocket science itās not some thing that you know will take a miracle. If you want to lose weight, change your diet exercise, and it will happen. Unless she has some type of disorder like PCOS weight loss should not be an issue. Out of all these comments I donāt see the the O P actually explaining what she means by her comment I saw she posted that she used to be 180 pounds. I donāt care what height you are on the shorter side, 180 pounds is 20 pounds away from 200lbs. Very few people who are short and look healthy at 200lbs.
The comments arenāt super positive because honestly why even mention being obese if you donāt think obesity is a real thing. She mentioned that she doesnāt look obese and thatās why everybody commented the way they did.
Hey, as long as sheās happy. In the end thatās all that matters.
